Is This on the Verge of Cheating?
Author: JustMe
Well I kept talking about all this proof I have and I figured I would just finally provide a sample of what SAH was e-mailing to people. Now you have to remember – he proposed to TL, the love of his life, January 29, 2008 – so all these e-mails are after that. This is just a very very small percentage of the actual number of e-mails he sent. I didn’t really forward a lot onto myself from his account. For some reason – even after all the shit he did – I felt guilty about it. He sent many of these out from my place on my computer. When I started questioning how he could say he was in love with TL and yet be trying to hook up with other girls – he stopped doing it from my place and started just sending them from his cell phone (around May 2009). The thing is – they still appeared in his e-mail account which I had access to. He actually sent out like 20 in one day in June 2009.
But – everyone feels that I was trying to break him and TL up and that I didn’t approve of the marriage. They feel that I am jealous of him – or actually anyone that has a girlfriend – which isn’t true at all (well maybe not always untrue, but in this case it was untrue). Anyway, I was made to be the bad guy. I agree I didn’t help matters by making comments like “I’ll be his groosman at his second wedding” or ‘we’ll see how long it lasts” which I know got back to people. Sometimes I was just so pissed that I was always the bad guy and being treated like shit by everyone – when they were all in the dark. I was the only one who knew what he was doing.
I have to admit – after a huge fight – in which SAH got TL involved and made me out to be the bad guy, where TL called LB a nigger and claimed that LB was continuing to call SAH – I did end up sending her the June 12, 2009 e-mail. She brushed it aside saying – “he’s 23 not 24″. Of course I know he was 24 – but he lies about everything, he even says that he was married in one e-mail because the person he was trying to hook up with was married. When I brought up to him how could he claim to be in love with TL and be trying to hook up with people – he claimed he was just fooling around with the e-mails and not serious. I don’t believe that because then he started to sneak them by only sending them from his cell phone.
October 23, 2008
Hi its me [SAH] I don’t what happened sorry the call get discounted and i tried calling you back and it said you werent available. I was really enjoying talking to you today. I really like you a lot you i really want to meet you i you so special to me i treasure every minute we talk to each other. I really do want to meet you one day write me back soon your friend and and lover lol i wish [sah] my number is [999-999-9999] i really want to talk to u soon [SAH]
February 10, 2009
hi Allison its me [SAH] how are you doing? I enjoyed our conversation earlier today. I have missed talking to you i really wanna meet one day soon i think it would awsome to meet you and hug and whathever else happens. we definately have to meet one day write me back i miss you [SAH]
Hi [SAH]
Good to here from you. We have some connection here because I feel the same.I enjoyed our last you sound so laid back and handsome. I look forward to speaking with you soon.
Allison
Hi its me again we need to talk again soon and possibly see each other i miss hearing your voice i wanna meet you i mean we live so close to each other. Thanks [SAH]
March 14, 2009
SAH: when can do this whenever. I would want to have sex and a blow job if its thats ok
craiglist girl: what are you will to pay
SAH: i will give u 100
April 29, 2009
Hi my name is [SAH] and am interested in getting to know u a little more. Well am 24 years old and married as well write me back if you are interested
June 12, 2009
Hey am 24 years old live in “someplace” I have a great job and I would love to go get some drinks with you are so hot and cute write me back if interested
The sad thing is – the June 12th email was less than 4 months till his wedding, not to mention he called the phone sex line less than a month before his wedding.
So I wonder – should I reveal all this? Now that SAH and I are no longer friends – should I finally tell people – “hey this is why I don’t think the marriage will last” or why I don’t think SAH is madly in love with TL even though they are now married?
I keep telling myself – what does it matter really. But it goes back to what I said in a previous post – I want vindication. Of course in that post I had said I would just let it run it’s course. I know the truth and I believe soon enough others will know the truth.
And yes – that really is how he writes and yes – he is studying to be a Medical Assistant and yes, just like his marriage – I don’t think this job is right for him. But hell – TL and his mother tell him exactly what to do and he does it.
BTW – the emails aren’t the only thing – but it the only written evidence I have. He was having phone sex with LB until April or May 2009 also. He was continuing to tell her that “you never know what the future holds” or “If T: and I don’t last…” and also he used to ask her if she had dreams about him and then tell her that he did.
Damn – looking at this – why would I want a sociopathic asshole like this in my life. Why? because like I said – I felt we were friends – I miss the good times, but I have to remember the bad shit too. I have to remember that he treats people like shit and that they are just a means to an end for him. Once they have fulfiilled his needs, he drops them.
Okay – back to work. I need to remember -” Success is the Best Revenge”. He isn’t going to be able to keep these lies from everyone forever and when that happens – his life will come crashing down.
